Some help for the 30 day Modest Skirts/Dresses challenge:
It can feel impossible to find modest clothes at the mall or in most retail clothing stores today. Thankfully, it is not impossible!
Here are a few resources I’ve spotted to help you find modest, feminine, beautiful clothing – you are welcome to share any sites or stores that you would recommend. (I am not being paid to endorse these companies – just want to share some places that might be helpful.) One site has a really good sale going on this week, so I decided to go ahead and share right away. 🙂
Sierra Brooke – modest, feminine clothing site
Soft Surroundings – amazing long dresses and skirts, a bit more pricey, some of the tops are rather low cut
Shabby Apple – mostly modest and a bit vintage
Neesee’s Dresses – modest site, there is a “modest swimwear” section, but may not be as modest as you might desire
Sweet Salt – modest clothing site – there is a great sale going on right now, very affordable!
Light in the Box – some very beautiful long skirts at reasonable prices, but also has some immodest clothing, as well
HannahLise – a Christian site with long, modest, well-made skirts with no slits
ShellSheli – mostly pencil skirts, skirt extenders, layering shells, and modest blouses
Style J – many long denim skirts
DownEast – modeset dresses and skirts
Chadwicks – lots of modest dresses to choose from
Mode-sty – many long dresses and skirts, and a wide selection of modest swimwear with various levels of coverage
Allure Bridals – Modest Collection wedding dresses
Beautifully Modest – modest wedding gowns
Keep in mind that Wal-Mart and Target have long skirts, especially during the summer months for very reasonable prices. Other options are Hamricks and Catoe’s. You may also find modest things at a very frugal price at yard sales, flea markets, and Goodwill. I often get tops from Wal-Mart or Target, as well.
Tena Weyer
July 2, 2015
WOWZA!!! Thanks!
This probably sounds odd but I have bought some of my prettiest and favorite outfits at Cracker Barrel (restaurant & shop)..but they are not online.
I found a skirt that said “you must have me!!” at Light In the Box.
http://www.lightinthebox.com/verragee-2015-summer-women-long-skirts-put-on-a-large-half-length-long-skirt-elegant-mop-skirt-resort-beach_p3406681.html
I like flowy skirts and I think these are stylish right now?
I found some other gorgeous things, esp dresses but they had a pretty price on them. I would have to wait and save. Can’t remember which link they were on, that attracted me.
But I need to copy/paste and save that list.
Peacefulwife
July 2, 2015
Tena,
I’m glad you found some things you like. That skirt is LOVELY! I really like long, flowy skirts that move in the breeze. Those are my favorites! Price can definitely be an issue. I really don’t like to spend over about $20 on one article of clothing if possible. But there are some beautiful things for those who want to spend more.
Some women choose to have fewer pieces of clothing but better quality in order to stay in budget. That may be an option for some, as well.
anon
July 2, 2015
Thank you for this great list, April! 🙂 Want to cautiously add eBay… it’s good to purchase from reputable sellers on the site, and I’ve built up my skirt collection with a variety of unique and beautiful brand new and gently used purchases. 🙂
Peacefulwife
July 2, 2015
anon,
Great suggestion! Thank you so much for sharing. 🙂
Tena Weyer
July 2, 2015
Okay. I bought the skirt while hubs was gone. And then worried about the budget. I know, I know. Anyway he approved the price as being a great deal. I showed him a t-shirt with a spider on them (he is a spidey fan lol), he ordered 2, so then I went ahead and got a top and the wedge shoes I wanted.
This feels like a big splurge holiday!
Here is the top:
http://www.lightinthebox.com/women-s-plus-size-xxxl-multi-color-print-short-sleeve-o-neck-loose-casual-chiffon-t-shirts_p2687946.html
and the wedges I wanted:
http://www.lightinthebox.com/women-s-shoes-fleece-wedge-heel-peep-toe-platform-sandals_p3628746.html
Light In the Box has a 99 cent-$9.99 section.
It has just been a very long time since I bought clothing.
I always think that things for me can wait and put our house remodeling first. But if I wait until that is done, all my things would long be threadbare.
And I didn’t enjoy clothes shopping anyway since I gained the weight.
But the 30 day challenge is fun & exciting & encouraging me to be aware.
I don’t need to look like a disheveled bag lady simply because I gained weight.
And it is ok to buy pretty things every once in awhile…
but only on blue moons lol! 🙂
blesseddaughterofaking
July 2, 2015
Currently Kohl’s (and http://www.kohls.com) has a variety of long skirts. And many are as low as $19.99.
Peacefulwife
July 3, 2015
blesseddaughterofaking,
Thank you for this! That is awesome!
30sv
July 28, 2015
Recent Wall Street Journal article with some resources mentioned:
http://www.wsj.com/articles/modest-bathing-suits-make-a-splash-leggings-sleeves-skorts-1437702924
Dressing modestly during the summertime can be a challenge. You might find some inspiration from India. I went to a wedding there and the bride’s mother gave me several outfits. I was covered all the way to the neck, the wrists, and ankles, and yet was very comfortable in the hot, humid climate.
Many (not all, it’s a predominantly non-Christian country so they have a culture of modesty, albeit not based on biblical principles) of their styles are modest, flowing, and very feminine and beautiful (speaking as a guy, I find them very visually appealing). And they’re usually designed for comfort in the tropical heat. http://fabindia.com is one of the most popular companies (free international shipping for orders above a certain amount). I think prices are on the higher end, but it might be worth checking out. And I’m sure there are lower-priced alternatives.
Peacefulwife
July 28, 2015
30sv,
Thank you for sharing these resources. There are some very beautiful and modest outfits from India. Beautiful fabrics and colors. 🙂