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I Like to Be in Control

February 5, 2015 by

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    By a single sister in Christ. I’m so thankful for her willingness to share: WHO IS YOUR MASTER? For months this question has run through my mind daily and hourly. If I am being honest, sometimes it runs thru my mind much more than I care to admit. It is a reminder question, […]

Should I Ever Share My Concerns with My Man?

February 3, 2015 by

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Yep. (I write from a slant of having been a disrespectful, controlling, Type A, perfectionistic, outspoken, go-getter kind of woman. This post may best fit women who are approaching relationships from this same slant. My prayer is that it might be a blessing to everyone. AND, please keep in mind, I am assuming that you […]

Unlearning the Ungodly Example of a Controlling, Disrespectful Mother

January 23, 2015 by

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  Unfortunately, some of us learned to be controlling and disrespectful by the poor examples of our mothers. If we have witnessed a dominant, type-A, perfectionistic, manipulative, overly emotional, resentful, bitter, controlling, fearful, anxious, disrespectful wife and a passive, unplugged father for 20+ years – these dynamics can seem “normal” and “right.” These moms did […]

“Why Doesn’t My Man Appreciate My Helpful Suggestions?”

January 16, 2015 by

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  If a man has been feeling quite disrespected, he may be particularly sensitive to a woman’s unsolicited advice and suggestions. When a man feels truly respected, he is usually much more open to a woman’s ideas, but women may want to learn how to share their suggestions at the right time and in ways […]

When a Guy Is Being Completely Inappropriate

December 9, 2014 by

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AN ACQUAINTANCE, COWORKER, CLASSMATE, or STRANGER: If a guy you are not even in a relationship with is asking you for naked pictures or casual sex, here are my thoughts: Yes, we can treat men (and women) with respect, honor, dignity, grace, and the love of God. We can do this for everyone. However, if […]

Why Men Leave

November 25, 2014 by

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  FROM A BROTHER IN CHRIST IN RESPONSE TO MY POST YESTERDAY: When a guy leaves, it is pretty important that a girl know that he may have a variety of motivators. For instance, I vanished from one girl’s life because although she was fun sometimes, she was a top-rate complainer and would get very […]

A Beautiful, Feminine Example of How to Handle Conflict

October 12, 2014 by

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A reader allowed me to share her comments from “Godly Femininity – Part 1.” Thank you, my sweet sister!!!! Please note ladies, this is an example where the husband did not purposely try to hurt his wife. READER: So humbling…… Yesterday, I did so poorly with my dear husband. We got into a bad argument […]