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“Putting the Breaks on Sexual Temptation with My Boyfriend”

July 14, 2015 by


A guest post by Surrenderedgirl – I am excited to share what God is doing in her life. May her post bless your walk with Christ, as well: I met my boyfriend on a college church retreat at the beach. He was the first boyfriend I ever had, and he swept me off my feet. […]

Seeking to Understand and Bless Our Brothers in Christ

June 1, 2015 by


Today’s post is a guest post by a single sister in Christ in her 30s. I so appreciate her willingness to share with us what God is showing her! I have often heard of the battle of sexes. There are jokes, books, television shows, and frequent general conversations about this very topic. I am actually […]

What Are Your Boundaries with Men?

January 18, 2015 by


This is a guest post by a single sister in Christ who is about 30 years old whose walk with the Lord I greatly admire: Dating can be a challenge for us single gals. Many of us have read quite a bit about being a respectful wife. We’ve read how to deal with our past. […]

Turning Christian Guys Down – VIDEO

July 30, 2014 by


The gentlemen are welcome to join us in a respectful discussion on this topic.   http:/

“Do I Use Men Instead of Loving Them in a Godly Way?”

November 29, 2013 by


This is an email from the woman who wrote to me about the married man she became involved with a few weeks ago.  It is a continuation of our conversation.  I am so glad she is allowing me to share this with my other sisters in Christ.  I believe there is much for many women to […]

Am I Responsible for My Sin?

November 14, 2013 by


When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed.  Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full […]

One Woman’s Regrets

November 13, 2013 by


I have been corresponding with a young Christian woman who fell for a man at work – a married man.  He flirted with her.  It was exiting for her to have his attention.  Eventually, she ended up giving him oral sex in a closet at the office – and there was a lot of sensual […]

Pastors Are Human, Too

November 4, 2013 by


Unfortunately, many of us know pastors who have succumbed to the temptation of an affair.  Often, a pastor’s/minister’s affair destroys his marriage, his family, his career, his ministry, his reputation, his power in the kingdom of God and even his church – not to mention the life of the other woman involved.  Many times – […]

When Another Woman Flirts with or Goes After Your Man

October 23, 2013 by

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Let me begin by saying – I am NOT an expert in this area.  I have corresponded with dozens and dozens of women in these kinds of situations.  I will offer some possible suggestions that I believe may be helpful. I am not saying I have all the answers.  I think this may be a […]

Is it Wise to be “Close Friends” with Unbelieving Guys?

September 7, 2013 by


After my post Time to Nip that Relationship ASAP – I heard from a reader – and I am really excited to share her comments.   I think her message is IMPORTANT!  And I will share my thoughts at the end: FROM A READER:   Might I add… because you know its wrong to date an […]