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Pastors Are Human, Too

November 4, 2013 by


Unfortunately, many of us know pastors who have succumbed to the temptation of an affair.  Often, a pastor’s/minister’s affair destroys his marriage, his family, his career, his ministry, his reputation, his power in the kingdom of God and even his church – not to mention the life of the other woman involved.  Many times – […]

When Another Woman Flirts with or Goes After Your Man

October 23, 2013 by

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Let me begin by saying – I am NOT an expert in this area.  I have corresponded with dozens and dozens of women in these kinds of situations.  I will offer some possible suggestions that I believe may be helpful. I am not saying I have all the answers.  I think this may be a […]

Is it Wise to be “Close Friends” with Unbelieving Guys?

September 7, 2013 by


After my post Time to Nip that Relationship ASAP – I heard from a reader – and I am really excited to share her comments.   I think her message is IMPORTANT!  And I will share my thoughts at the end: FROM A READER:   Might I add… because you know its wrong to date an […]

Basic Respect for All of Our Brothers in Christ

August 25, 2013 by


Ladies, I don’t think most women have any idea how difficult it is to be a Christian single man today.  There are pressures on our brothers in Christ in our culture and in our churches that put many of them in almost impossible situations.  How I pray that we might learn to understand our brother’s […]

What Do Guys Really Think about Modesty? (From the archives)

July 30, 2013 by


I deeply appreciate the willingness of these Christian single guys to talk about this issue so candidly and clearly with us.  If modesty is not an issue you’ve thought about much – you may be in for a bit of a surprise.  I would recommend that teenage and young women read “For Young Women Only” […]

A Masculine Perspective – When He Says, “Let’s Just Be Friends.” (from the archives)

July 29, 2013 by


One single Christian man’s take on this subject.  I appreciate his willingness to share his heart, his perspective and insights with us. Why hasn’t he asked you out? -Maybe he isn’t attracted to you. To some extent, we have the cards we’ve been dealt, but there are things we can do to improve our hand. […]

Is Sarcasm Appropriate for a Godly Woman?

June 3, 2013 by


Here is something to carefully think about.  It’s easy to just accept sarcasm as a funny way of communicating that gets easy laughs.  But what is it that we are actually doing when we choose to be sarcastic? Here is part of Wikipedia’s definition of “sarcasm” Sarcasm is “a sharp, bitter, or cutting expression or remark; […]