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The Tragedy of the “Hook Up” Culture

February 21, 2015 by

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For those who are unfamiliar with this term – “hooking up” means having sex with someone you may not even really know, with “no strings attached.” i.e.: “We just met today, but let’s hook up later tonight.” I know that many girls (and guys) have never known anything but this culture that exists today. But, it makes […]

“When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?”

December 21, 2014 by

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  This is the last question that this precious single sister in Christ asked me: 3. When does it switch? Is there a moment when you feel slightly more secure and able to “relax” in the security of your relationship? My man is a great guy but I do wonder what it would be like […]

When a Guy Is Being Completely Inappropriate

December 9, 2014 by

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AN ACQUAINTANCE, COWORKER, CLASSMATE, or STRANGER: If a guy you are not even in a relationship with is asking you for naked pictures or casual sex, here are my thoughts: Yes, we can treat men (and women) with respect, honor, dignity, grace, and the love of God. We can do this for everyone. However, if […]

Triggers for Sinful Thoughts

September 11, 2014 by

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A few weeks ago, I conducted a survey to determine what some of our greatest triggers are  that get us thinking in a downward spiral of sinful thoughts. Of those who answered, here are the results (please remember that ladies could vote for as many of these as are triggers for them): reading other people’s […]

“He Is Not Very Affectionate”

March 19, 2014 by

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I have been seeing this so many times on http://www.peacefulwife.com, that I feel I just have to bring it up here. It seems that  there has been a big push in the last decade or so for Christian couples to focus so much on purity, that they sometimes don’t even kiss or hardly even touch […]

A Concerned, Heartbroken Mama’s Perspective

January 20, 2014 by

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From a Christian mother: Last year, my daughter came to her father and I in tears.  She asked if she could finish up her college work from home. We wanted her to stay at the state university where she was, but after she convinced us that she felt God was calling her to be at […]

Breaking Up with An Unbelieving Guy

January 17, 2014 by

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My precious sisters in Christ, MANY, MANY of you are dating or engaged to men who are unbelievers.  I know that you love your man.  I know you want to see him come to Christ.  Maybe he is even promising you that he will consider Christ “later” or that he will go to church with […]

Renata on Finding a Godly Guy

January 11, 2014 by

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Renata is a Christian wife and mom.  I appreciate her allowing me to share a few thoughts with the ladies! Girls, It is more important for you to refine your character to become the loving, giving, kindhearted woman you were meant to be than anything else as a young woman. Like attracts like. If you […]

Ben’s Perspective

January 10, 2014 by

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Ben came to Christ 3 years ago.  I think he has a very interesting perspective that the ladies would be wise to listen to concerning Christian women falling for “bad boys.”  Thank you so much for your willingness to answer my questions, Ben! Hello Mrs. April, I want to be satisfied with Christ alone but […]

Another Reason Why Godly Guys Don’t Pursue Christian Women

January 6, 2014 by

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A Christian husband, Purple Tortoise. shares his perspective, his wisdom and his story. Another reason godly guys don’t pursue Christian women is that the woman is already in a relationship with an unsuitable man. Many Christian women seem to think that it is better to be in a bad relationship than to be alone. Godly […]