For those who are unfamiliar with this term – “hooking up” means having sex with someone you may not even really know, with “no strings attached.” i.e.: “We just met today, but let’s hook up later tonight.” I know that many girls (and guys) have never known anything but this culture that exists today. But, it makes […]
This is the last question that this precious single sister in Christ asked me: 3. When does it switch? Is there a moment when you feel slightly more secure and able to “relax” in the security of your relationship? My man is a great guy but I do wonder what it would be like […]
AN ACQUAINTANCE, COWORKER, CLASSMATE, or STRANGER: If a guy you are not even in a relationship with is asking you for naked pictures or casual sex, here are my thoughts: Yes, we can treat men (and women) with respect, honor, dignity, grace, and the love of God. We can do this for everyone. However, if […]
A few weeks ago, I conducted a survey to determine what some of our greatest triggers are that get us thinking in a downward spiral of sinful thoughts. Of those who answered, here are the results (please remember that ladies could vote for as many of these as are triggers for them): reading other people’s […]
I have been seeing this so many times on http://www.peacefulwife.com, that I feel I just have to bring it up here. It seems that there has been a big push in the last decade or so for Christian couples to focus so much on purity, that they sometimes don’t even kiss or hardly even touch […]
From a Christian mother: Last year, my daughter came to her father and I in tears. She asked if she could finish up her college work from home. We wanted her to stay at the state university where she was, but after she convinced us that she felt God was calling her to be at […]
My precious sisters in Christ, MANY, MANY of you are dating or engaged to men who are unbelievers. I know that you love your man. I know you want to see him come to Christ. Maybe he is even promising you that he will consider Christ “later” or that he will go to church with […]
February 21, 2015 by Peacefulwife
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