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“When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?”

December 21, 2014 by


  This is the last question that this precious single sister in Christ asked me: 3. When does it switch? Is there a moment when you feel slightly more secure and able to “relax” in the security of your relationship? My man is a great guy but I do wonder what it would be like […]

Why Men Leave

November 25, 2014 by


  FROM A BROTHER IN CHRIST IN RESPONSE TO MY POST YESTERDAY: When a guy leaves, it is pretty important that a girl know that he may have a variety of motivators. For instance, I vanished from one girl’s life because although she was fun sometimes, she was a top-rate complainer and would get very […]

When He Walks Away

November 24, 2014 by


There seems to have been a rash of break ups lately. 😦 How my heart aches for anyone who is experiencing that kind of intense pain and grief. In this post, I am addressing couples who were not yet married. (I have a similar post for wives whose husbands want to separate or want a […]

Breaking Up with An Unbelieving Guy

January 17, 2014 by


My precious sisters in Christ, MANY, MANY of you are dating or engaged to men who are unbelievers.  I know that you love your man.  I know you want to see him come to Christ.  Maybe he is even promising you that he will consider Christ “later” or that he will go to church with […]

One Christian Guy’s Advice – How to Turn a Guy Down Gracefully

August 26, 2013 by


From a Single Christian Guy.  I want to thank this man for his take on this issue.  There are many times when a girl will begin to avoid a man who is interested in her – and that only intensifies his passion to try to “win” her.  I think this could be an interesting alternative […]

A Reader Asks about a Frustrating Situation with a Guy She Likes

July 25, 2013 by


I found your blog a few months ago it’s helped me so much to understand the man’s mind. I wanted to share a bit of my story with you and ask for some guidance. I’m a 24 year old woman that is single ( big surprise lol) I became friends with a guy  about two […]


July 24, 2013 by


There are those inevitable times in life when others hurt us, sin against us and maybe even destroy parts of our lives that we hold dear. The world says, “I’m going to get even.  I’m going to make you pay!  You hurt me, now I am going to hurt you more.” I think of this […]

“The Most Important Ability”

February 25, 2013 by

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Two summers ago, we were at the beach vacationing as a family (my husband, two children and myself).  This is the same trip where the van battery died –  check out a great example of real life respect and submission here. We went out for ice cream at Friendlies, enjoyed the BEAUTIFUL evening and got back to […]

Letting a Guy Down Gently

February 12, 2013 by


Some situations call for a woman to be very firm, resolute and stern in our rejection of certain men – and hints will not get the job done: when a guy is SCARY when he acts like a stalker when he acts in an incredibly inappropriate/overtly sexual manner and won’t take a polite, “no thanks.” […]

Your Words Can Cause Catastrophic Damage!

January 12, 2013 by


Just as a general principle – DO NOT bash your man to other people. It’s not a wise idea.  It is VERY disrespectful to badmouth ANYONE.  But definitely don’t do it to your guy.  Even if your boyfriend/fiance doesn’t ever find out about it – talking about him in a negative light sets off a […]