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Preparing Our Hearts for a Review of “Through a Man’s Eyes” by Shaunti Feldhahn and Craig Gross

July 31, 2015 by


Shaunti Feldhahn is one of my favorite authors. She is a social researcher and Christian author who does large scale, statistically accurate surveys of men and women to discover how we think and relate to each other. What a blessing to the Body of Christ! Her book, “For Women Only,” was the book that most […]

“Putting the Breaks on Sexual Temptation with My Boyfriend”

July 14, 2015 by


A guest post by Surrenderedgirl – I am excited to share what God is doing in her life. May her post bless your walk with Christ, as well: I met my boyfriend on a college church retreat at the beach. He was the first boyfriend I ever had, and he swept me off my feet. […]

The Tragedy of the “Hook Up” Culture

February 21, 2015 by


For those who are unfamiliar with this term – “hooking up” means having sex with someone you may not even really know, with “no strings attached.” i.e.: “We just met today, but let’s hook up later tonight.” I know that many girls (and guys) have never known anything but this culture that exists today. But, it makes […]

A Single Sister in Christ Shares What God Has Been Showing Her

September 15, 2014 by


I am so thankful to the reader who allowed me to share her comments from “If Only I Had THIS, I Would Be Happy!” Wow! Just Wow! God has been working on this exact thing in my heart so much lately. I am fighting to be content. Yes, fighting, because my nature is to desire […]

Triggers for Sinful Thoughts

September 11, 2014 by


A few weeks ago, I conducted a survey to determine what some of our greatest triggers are  that get us thinking in a downward spiral of sinful thoughts. Of those who answered, here are the results (please remember that ladies could vote for as many of these as are triggers for them): reading other people’s […]

Save Kissing for Marriage?

April 2, 2014 by


I know that there have been a number of very popular books and movements in the Christian community in the past 2 decades about this topic.  I have to show my age here. I just turned 41 last month and we are going to have our 20th wedding anniversary this May – and those ideas […]

The Blessing of Celibacy

January 13, 2014 by


This is a guest post by a Christian single man, Jason Piecuch.  He is a soldier in the Salvation Army and a Boy Scout leader. I appreciate his willingness to share on this important topic.  ALL of us will have periods of celibacy in our lifetimes, before marriage, sometimes in marriage if there are medical/spiritual/emotional/physical issues, […]

Crystal’s Story – Part 1

December 29, 2013 by


Crystal is a reader on whom  I “met” online over a year ago.  God is doing AMAZING things in her heart and life.   You can see a bit from this post what she has endured and the struggles that she has had because of the horrors she has gone through – and the healing […]

A Pastor’s Take on My Post, “Pastors Are Human, Too”

December 18, 2013 by


This is a pastor’s response to “Pastors Are Human, Too.”  I’m so thankful for his willingness to share his insights and wisdom As a young pastor, it is fascinating how people react to the office of a pastor, particularly women. Often, women who do not know the minister in any meaningful way worship the idol […]

What Godly Guys Are Looking For (From the Archives)

December 7, 2013 by

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FROM JASON A Godly man…or man who earnestly follows Christ won’t be lusting after you…he will chat with you, and want to have a DATE with you to see if you have stuff in common, or more! He won’t be dropping sexual hints with you. A real “guy of God” will smile, will look you […]