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March 10, 2013 by


Is it possible to take some of the advice I give and turn it into legalism? YES! I believe that as sinful humans, we are always prone to want lists and rules.  I think we can be tempted to think, if I do all of the things on this list or follow all of these […]

Who Is Really Being Affected?

December 20, 2012 by


WOW!  God is working so much in Kayla’s life this week!  I LOVE IT!  Thanks, Kayla, for sharing this.  I think that MANY, MANY women will benefit from this post.  I can’t wait to see what God plans to do!  (You can find Kayla’s blog at  For those of you who are not married – […]

Is it Wise to be “Friends” with Unbelieving Guys?

December 3, 2012 by


After my post Time to Nip that Relationship ASAP – I heard from a reader – and I am really excited to share her comments.   I think her message is IMPORTANT!  And I will share my thoughts at the end: FROM A READER:   Might I add… because you know its wrong to date an […]

Time to Nip that Relationship ASAP!

November 29, 2012 by


SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN TOO DEEP WITH A MARRIED/UNAVAILABLE MAN OR UNBELIEVER: you get butterflies in your stomach if you know you might see him you think about him often you imagine what life would be like with him and daydream about him you pay extra attention to your wardrobe/hair/make-up if you think you […]

I’m Thinking about Marrying a Guy Who Is Addicted to Porn.

October 17, 2012 by

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Ladies – I am hearing from countless women who married men they KNEW were addicted to porn. Big mistake! He says he’s a Christian He uses porn every day/multiple times a week Porn is addictive and works just like a drug. Yes, God can heal men – but this thing is TOUGH to treat and […]

Handling Major Adversity with Peace

August 1, 2012 by

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I haven’t had to deal with  much death or serious medical emergencies so far in my 39 years.  I know that there are tragedies in my future, just like there are in everyone’s life.  And at this point, I trust God to handle the details and to give me His power when those things happen.  […]

“Let Me Check with My Dad and Get Back with You.”

May 5, 2012 by

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Experiencing the joy and blessing of placing myself under my husband’s leadership, authority, protection and provision has been really simple to implement once I learned the ropes!  Now, my husband serves as a very useful compass for my life – a gift from God just for me!  PARENTS, ESPECIALLY DADS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE OUR […]