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Save Kissing for Marriage?

April 2, 2014 by


I know that there have been a number of very popular books and movements in the Christian community in the past 2 decades about this topic.  I have to show my age here. I just turned 41 last month and we are going to have our 20th wedding anniversary this May – and those ideas […]

Confessions of a Mini-Skirt Addict – by Nikka

February 5, 2014 by


Confessions of a Mini-Skirt Addict — My Wonderful Discovery of Modesty in Clothing Modest and Feminine Christian Dressing 🙂 – 2012 By my good friend, Nikka.  You can find her blog at I love being a woman! 🙂 I love dressing up femininely.    I love making myself look pretty.   I love pink.   […]

Renata on Finding a Godly Guy

January 11, 2014 by


Renata is a Christian wife and mom.  I appreciate her allowing me to share a few thoughts with the ladies! Girls, It is more important for you to refine your character to become the loving, giving, kindhearted woman you were meant to be than anything else as a young woman. Like attracts like. If you […]

Another Reason Why Godly Guys Don’t Pursue Christian Women

January 6, 2014 by


A Christian husband, Purple Tortoise. shares his perspective, his wisdom and his story. Another reason godly guys don’t pursue Christian women is that the woman is already in a relationship with an unsuitable man. Many Christian women seem to think that it is better to be in a bad relationship than to be alone. Godly […]

Avoiding Regrets, Having the Life You Want in the Future

December 31, 2013 by


For the young ladies especially – although it applies to all of us… The choices you make in your teens and twenties will drastically alter the direction of your life and determine much of what your life will be like in the future.  If you want to live a godly life, the  best time to […]

One Woman’s Regrets

November 13, 2013 by


I have been corresponding with a young Christian woman who fell for a man at work – a married man.  He flirted with her.  It was exiting for her to have his attention.  Eventually, she ended up giving him oral sex in a closet at the office – and there was a lot of sensual […]

I’ve Been Living with/Having Sex with My Boyfriend… How Do I Make Things Right with God?

October 26, 2013 by


The guilt of sin can be soul-crushing and overwhelming. Sin always brings destruction and death.  Destruction of our relationship with God, destruction of our relationship with others, physical/emotional/spiritual death. It can cause HUGE anxiety, worry, dread and fear in our lives.  It can even make us physically sick. What if you are stuck in sin […]