Browsing All posts tagged under »Christian dating«

I Made My Boyfriend into an Idol – by Surrenderedgirl

July 10, 2015 by


A guest post by Surrenderedgirl – I’m so thankful for the opportunity to share what God is doing in this dear sister’s life. May her post richly bless you, as well: After several months of dating, I had built up resentment towards my boyfriend. I don’t naturally talk about my feelings much, so I would […]

Seeking to Understand and Bless Our Brothers in Christ

June 1, 2015 by


Today’s post is a guest post by a single sister in Christ in her 30s. I so appreciate her willingness to share with us what God is showing her! I have often heard of the battle of sexes. There are jokes, books, television shows, and frequent general conversations about this very topic. I am actually […]

“If I Only Had This, I Would Be Happy!”

September 1, 2014 by


I have seen countless women who believe ideas like: If I could just feel that a man was attracted to me, I would be happy. If I could just have a steady boyfriend, I would be happy. If I could just be engaged, I would be happy. If I could just have the wedding of […]

When Other People Disrespect Your Man

August 11, 2014 by


What can you do if friends, coworkers or family members treat your man with disrespect? What if they purposely try to humiliate him,  put him down, make fun of him, insult him and make him the butt of their jokes? ——————– First of all, I am assuming that you are a disciple of Christ and […]

How to Look Desperate and Needy to a Man

August 4, 2014 by


I would like to invite the gentlemen to comment respectfully on this post, if you would like to share your perspective on this particular issue. I think it is important for our sisters in Christ to realize exactly what they are communicating to men when they do and say certain things. From a reader: On […]

Playing Games

May 8, 2014 by


  Greg and April – our 19th wedding anniversary May 28, 2013 I have been asked, on multiple occasions, “Why should I play this game of being coy and submissive and pretending to respect my man? It just feels so fake.” You know what? This question speaks VOLUMES to me about where a woman’s heart […]

Save Kissing for Marriage?

April 2, 2014 by


I know that there have been a number of very popular books and movements in the Christian community in the past 2 decades about this topic.  I have to show my age here. I just turned 41 last month and we are going to have our 20th wedding anniversary this May – and those ideas […]

A Girlfriend Learns More about the Power of Respect/Disrespect

April 1, 2014 by


This is a bit of correspondence between myself and a sister in Christ who attends college at this time with her boyfriend. I appreciate her willingness to allow me to share! Her words are in blue:  Reader: Last night I was disrespectful to my boyfriend and now he’s emotionally distant. I’ve apologized and but he’s still distant. […]

We Reap What We Sow in Actions, Too – Not Just Words

March 31, 2014 by

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This is a comment from a wife who shared on the post yesterday, “We Reap What We Sow with Our Men.” This particular wife didn’t sin against her husband with words. But it is not only with our words that we can cause catastrophic damage to our men. I appreciate her willingness to share so much! […]

The PMS Issue – from the Archives

March 7, 2014 by

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From a dear friend and precious wife who is on this journey with me: Like so many other women, your post about “The Challenge” really struck a chord with me… I didn’t realize until lately how bad of an attitude I have had at times…. there have been times I could almost hear God whispering […]