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A Brief Overview about What Godly Men Find to Be Attractive/Unattractive

January 29, 2014 by


This topic continues to come up.  It seems to me that it is one of the most frustrating issues that many of my single brothers and sisters are dealing with – figuring out how to attract a potential romantic partner who is a believer in Christ, and how to avoid being “unattractive” to godly members […]

How to Bless Our Men with Respect

January 5, 2014 by


Yesterday, we talked about disrespect.  Today, let’s focus on how we can bless others around us – but particularly our men by learning to speak the language of respect fluently.  Men and women both need love and respect.  A godly relationship will have love and respect flowing freely in both directions. Whether you are dealing […]

What Speaks Disrespect to Guys?

January 4, 2014 by


A bit about me – my purpose is to fulfill Titus 2:3-5.   Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be […]

Things Are Beginning to Click – a Wife’s Little Victories

December 28, 2013 by


Administrative Note: I am on an email vacation through January 6th.  You are welcome to comment on posts, but I would appreciate it if you could please hold emails for me until January 7th. Thanks so much for your patience and understanding! 🙂 From a wife and sister in the Lord who is beginning to […]

Being Needy and Clingy Repels Men (and Everyone Else, Too!)

December 26, 2013 by


If you have ever been in any kind of relationship with someone who is needy and clingy all the time – you know that it can feel like imprisonment.  Even if it is just a coworker or a classmate at school.  There is something about neediness/clinginess that just sucks all of the emotional life out […]

Am I “Too Damaged” to Have a Godly Marriage One Day?

December 20, 2013 by


Administrative Note: I am taking an email vacation through January 6th.  You are more than welcome to comment on the blog, but please hold emails for me until after that date.  Thanks so much for your understanding! 🙂 A question a precious sister in Christ sent me lately: So, if some people are damaged, and […]

What Godly Guys Are Looking For (From the Archives)

December 7, 2013 by

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FROM JASON A Godly man…or man who earnestly follows Christ won’t be lusting after you…he will chat with you, and want to have a DATE with you to see if you have stuff in common, or more! He won’t be dropping sexual hints with you. A real “guy of God” will smile, will look you […]

The Powerful Concept of “Submitting Under Protest”

December 6, 2013 by


Whether you believe your man is watching “too much TV,”  shouldn’t look at certain things (in your view), is working more than you think he should,  is not “making you a priority” the way you want him to, or whatever the issue is – if you respond to him by yelling at him and demanding that […]

Why Do I Have to Change First?

November 23, 2013 by


We are continuing the series of FAQs that I hear from women – wives, fiances and girlfriends.    I’d like for you to keep this post in mind as a godly mindset in marriage.  There may be some applications for it in dating/courtship/engagement as well.  But if a man you are with is very far […]

“Jesus Is My Husband”

November 10, 2013 by


A lot of Christian women like to use this phrase. I understand why. Ultimately, marriage represents Christ and His bride the church.  He is “the heavenly Bridegroom” for believers – the body of Christ.  We have the promise that we will share the Marriage supper of the Lamb together with Him in heaven.  Then we […]