Browsing All posts tagged under »Christian romance«

The Artificial Romance Issue – From the Archives

February 9, 2014 by


Gentlemen, (For those who didn’t see my post yesterday to my brothers in Christ) I am going to change things a bit. I plan to have a number of “Ladies Only” posts – actually, probably the majority of my posts will be this way from this point on. I want the women to have a […]

What a Compliment!

February 3, 2014 by


From a precious sister in Christ – I appreciate her generosity in allowing me to share her story! I love this girl’s attitude towards God and her situation: Hey April, So I have been following your blog and Youtube videos (channel “April Cassidy”) for a few months now. I had a horrible relationship experience and broke […]

Ben’s Perspective

January 10, 2014 by


Ben came to Christ 3 years ago.  I think he has a very interesting perspective that the ladies would be wise to listen to concerning Christian women falling for “bad boys.”  Thank you so much for your willingness to answer my questions, Ben! Hello Mrs. April, I want to be satisfied with Christ alone but […]

Being Needy and Clingy Repels Men (and Everyone Else, Too!)

December 26, 2013 by


If you have ever been in any kind of relationship with someone who is needy and clingy all the time – you know that it can feel like imprisonment.  Even if it is just a coworker or a classmate at school.  There is something about neediness/clinginess that just sucks all of the emotional life out […]

What Some Single Christian Men Wish Christian Women Knew (from the Archives)

December 9, 2013 by


This is our Christian brother’s response from a question I asked him after yesterday’s post (Why Asking About His “Five Year Plan” Can Backfire).   I asked him what he would suggest  Christian women might do when they believe they are having to wait too long for the Christian man they are interested in to “move […]

The Powerful Concept of “Submitting Under Protest”

December 6, 2013 by


Whether you believe your man is watching “too much TV,”  shouldn’t look at certain things (in your view), is working more than you think he should,  is not “making you a priority” the way you want him to, or whatever the issue is – if you respond to him by yelling at him and demanding that […]

Replacing the “Tapes” in My Head

December 5, 2013 by


Before God radically changed my mind, heart and soul over the past 5 years, I would constantly have “tapes” playing in my head where I was always talking to myself about things – a running narrative of worry, fear, trying to figure out every possible “what if” scenario and basically, trying to figure out how […]

Why Do I Have to Change First?

November 23, 2013 by


We are continuing the series of FAQs that I hear from women – wives, fiances and girlfriends.    I’d like for you to keep this post in mind as a godly mindset in marriage.  There may be some applications for it in dating/courtship/engagement as well.  But if a man you are with is very far […]

I’m Right! I’m the Better Leader. I Should Be in Charge.

November 22, 2013 by


This week, I am addressing FAQs that I receive on this blog and on But I’m Right! Hold on here, ladies!  This is going to be a painful one.  I am going to show you how God deconstructed my sin for me in EXCRUCIATING detail and clarity so that I was able to see […]

“Jesus Is My Husband”

November 10, 2013 by


A lot of Christian women like to use this phrase. I understand why. Ultimately, marriage represents Christ and His bride the church.  He is “the heavenly Bridegroom” for believers – the body of Christ.  We have the promise that we will share the Marriage supper of the Lamb together with Him in heaven.  Then we […]