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Put Your Hands in the Air, and Step Away from the GUILT-TRIPPING!

November 4, 2012 by

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What is guilt exactly? Wikipedia defines guilt as: Guilt (emotion) is an emotion that occurs when a person believes that they have violated a moral standard. Please notice that guilt can happen even when we haven’t done something wrong.  If we believe we have done something wrong – we will experience guilt even if God does […]

Control and Boundaries

November 3, 2012 by

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I’m going to be talking about some of the aspects that often accompany the idolatry of self, or of trying to be in control oneself.  This is the part of  a series of posts that will cover guilt, codependency, martyrdom and people-pleasing. I was a committed Christian from the time I was a child.  I […]

DYING TO SELF

August 18, 2012 by

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This process of learning to respect our men and honor their leadership is a VERY painful process – especially at first.   There are no short cuts!!   This is not just some self-help 10 steps to controlling your man and getting everything you want by changing your words and tone of voice.  My motives MATTER here! […]

If I am “Right” … but Don’t Have Love and Respect – then I am Wrong!

August 3, 2012 by

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If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.  If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am […]

An Update on the Fly Swatter Incident

July 26, 2012 by

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After I sent Jane (not her real name) my take on her situation with her husband (if you missed it or need a refresher on what happened, please read the original post http://wp.me/p28uul-Tr ) – she sent me an email. She came from a background of verbal, emotional and sexual abuse. She had a very dominant […]

A Dissection of a Disrespectful Conversation – Part 1

July 16, 2012 by

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This is an email I received from a wife who has given me permission to use a conversation she and her husband had.  I want to use it as an example of how we might inadvertently come across disrespectfully and in a controlling way to our guys and cause damage we don’t even realize we are causing.  Her words […]