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I Made My Boyfriend into an Idol – by Surrenderedgirl

July 10, 2015 by


A guest post by Surrenderedgirl – I’m so thankful for the opportunity to share what God is doing in this dear sister’s life. May her post richly bless you, as well: After several months of dating, I had built up resentment towards my boyfriend. I don’t naturally talk about my feelings much, so I would […]

Saying “I love you” in a Dating Relationship

July 28, 2014 by


FROM A READER: I was wondering what your thoughts are on those three big little words (I love you) in a dating relationship. I know of some single Christian girls who never want to hear those words from the guy they care about until he proposes. I also know that I don’t want to say […]

Asking Men Questions

April 29, 2014 by


Gentlemen, If you would like to leave comments, please do – and I will use some of the comments anonymously.  Thanks! Ladies, There are some questions that just rub a lot of men the wrong way. This may be a surprise.  Some of these things may vary depending on the individual man you are talking […]

What Speaks Disrespect to Guys?

January 4, 2014 by


A bit about me – my purpose is to fulfill Titus 2:3-5.   Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be […]

What Some Single Christian Men Wish Christian Women Knew (from the Archives)

December 9, 2013 by


This is our Christian brother’s response from a question I asked him after yesterday’s post (Why Asking About His “Five Year Plan” Can Backfire).   I asked him what he would suggest  Christian women might do when they believe they are having to wait too long for the Christian man they are interested in to “move […]

I Don’t Want to Lose My Voice and My Identity in My Relationship

November 19, 2013 by

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1. I don’t want to lose my voice and power with my man. Many women are concerned that if they obey God’s Word to respect their husbands (or husbands-to-be) and to honor their husbands’ God-given leadership, that it means they will become “doormats” or that they will lose all power in the relationship. God’s wisdom ALWAYS […]

How to Tell Your Man You Are Done Fighting

November 6, 2013 by

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If you decide you are not going to argue with your man, here is what you will be tempted to do: – call him and say, “I’m not fighting with you about this.  Really.  I am not fighting anymore with you.  I just need to explain about this a bit.  Here is what I think… […]