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The Beauty of Not Rushing a Man

July 23, 2015 by


A guest post from a single sister in Christ in her 40s – thank you so much for sharing with all of us the treasures God has been showing you: I wanted to share some things I have been learning through my journey of liking a godly wonderful man and all of the precious lessons God […]

When He Walks Away

November 24, 2014 by


There seems to have been a rash of break ups lately. 😦 How my heart aches for anyone who is experiencing that kind of intense pain and grief. In this post, I am addressing couples who were not yet married. (I have a similar post for wives whose husbands want to separate or want a […]

How to Look Desperate and Needy to a Man

August 4, 2014 by


I would like to invite the gentlemen to comment respectfully on this post, if you would like to share your perspective on this particular issue. I think it is important for our sisters in Christ to realize exactly what they are communicating to men when they do and say certain things. From a reader: On […]

Playing Games

May 8, 2014 by


  Greg and April – our 19th wedding anniversary May 28, 2013 I have been asked, on multiple occasions, “Why should I play this game of being coy and submissive and pretending to respect my man? It just feels so fake.” You know what? This question speaks VOLUMES to me about where a woman’s heart […]

Let’s Tread VERY Carefully with Respect, Ladies – MOTIVES COUNT!

February 4, 2014 by


If we are not careful, we may just add respect to our arsenal of ways to attempt to control men. 😦 Yes, God wants me to treat my man with respect and honor. But – if I am just respecting him to make him change or to get my needs met – that is manipulation […]

Two Christian Men Share What Is Attractive to Them

February 1, 2014 by


ADMINISTRATIVE NOTE: My email is running again!  But I did lose a few dozen emails I sent on my tablet. The ones on my computer, I was able to re-send last night to everyone. If you have not heard from me in the past 4 days – please shoot me another email. Thanks so much […]

How Can Godly Women Signal Interest in Godly Men?

January 7, 2014 by


This is a guest post by Donalgraeme in response to some questions I had posed.  I appreciate his willingness to share his perspective.  I think he has some extremely valuable information here for my sisters. What is it that women can do to signal interest, and what is it that women are doing to prevent […]

“Why Don’t the Godly Guys Pursue Christian Women?”

December 19, 2013 by


Administrative note: I am taking an email vacation through January 6th.  You are welcome to post comments on posts, but I would appreciate it if you can hold emails for me for a few weeks.  Thank you for your patience and understanding! 🙂 This is a big question that is on the minds and hearts […]

What Some Single Christian Men Wish Christian Women Knew (from the Archives)

December 9, 2013 by


This is our Christian brother’s response from a question I asked him after yesterday’s post (Why Asking About His “Five Year Plan” Can Backfire).   I asked him what he would suggest  Christian women might do when they believe they are having to wait too long for the Christian man they are interested in to “move […]