Browsing All posts tagged under »prepare for godly marriage«

Ten Ways to Bless Your Man – VIDEO

July 28, 2015 by

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(Note – I am assuming that you are seeking to live wholeheartedly for Christ and that you would only date/court a man who wants to submit his life fully to Christ.)   Blessing a man you love is really pretty simple – they don’t ask for a lot, honestly.  But this does require the power […]

I Made My Boyfriend into an Idol – by Surrenderedgirl

July 10, 2015 by

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A guest post by Surrenderedgirl – I’m so thankful for the opportunity to share what God is doing in this dear sister’s life. May her post richly bless you, as well: After several months of dating, I had built up resentment towards my boyfriend. I don’t naturally talk about my feelings much, so I would […]

How Do You Prepare for the Reality of Marriage without Making Marriage an Idol?

December 5, 2014 by

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From a single sister in Christ: The background: I am dating a really, really nice guy. He is a believer and I haven’t seen any red flags. I mention this b/c I believe that he is a man of strong, compelling character. Where we differ is in how we express our emotions, specifically love. We […]

“If I Only Had This, I Would Be Happy!”

September 1, 2014 by

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I have seen countless women who believe ideas like: If I could just feel that a man was attracted to me, I would be happy. If I could just have a steady boyfriend, I would be happy. If I could just be engaged, I would be happy. If I could just have the wedding of […]

What Things are In Your “Keep” and “Throw-Away” Piles?

August 28, 2014 by

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  My desire for each of you is that you might have a very close walk with Christ, that you might live out His abundant life for you – filled with His Spirit, totally yielded to Him as the Master of your life, overflowing with thankfulness, joy, peace, God’s love, faithfulness, gentleness, goodness, patience and […]

Dream Disney Weddings /

August 18, 2014 by

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My friend and I were looking at Disney’s wedding stuff lately – all the things you can buy and do if you have a wedding at Disney World. Wow! There sure are some beautiful, fantastical ideas there and a LOT of ways to spend gobs and gobs of money. The pictures are glorious. They do […]

How to Look Desperate and Needy to a Man

August 4, 2014 by

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I would like to invite the gentlemen to comment respectfully on this post, if you would like to share your perspective on this particular issue. I think it is important for our sisters in Christ to realize exactly what they are communicating to men when they do and say certain things. From a reader: On […]

Playing Games

May 8, 2014 by

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  Greg and April – our 19th wedding anniversary May 28, 2013 I have been asked, on multiple occasions, “Why should I play this game of being coy and submissive and pretending to respect my man? It just feels so fake.” You know what? This question speaks VOLUMES to me about where a woman’s heart […]

“He Is Not Very Affectionate”

March 19, 2014 by

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I have been seeing this so many times on http://www.peacefulwife.com, that I feel I just have to bring it up here. It seems that  there has been a big push in the last decade or so for Christian couples to focus so much on purity, that they sometimes don’t even kiss or hardly even touch […]

The PMS Issue – from the Archives

March 7, 2014 by

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From a dear friend and precious wife who is on this journey with me: Like so many other women, your post about “The Challenge” really struck a chord with me… I didn’t realize until lately how bad of an attitude I have had at times…. there have been times I could almost hear God whispering […]